Part 51 (1/2)
Mothers' habits. Numbers.
Did not drink liquor 875 Drank moderately 574 ” intemperately 347 Unascertained 204 ---- ---- Totals 1125 875 ---- 1125 ---- Aggregate 2000
How much of the intemperate habits of these women must be traced to the influence of the parent's example? One thousand four hundred and fifty-two fathers; one thousand one hundred and twenty-five mothers, are represented as having been addicted to the use of liquors in various degrees, the moderate in both cases exceeding the intemperate drinkers. And yet even moderate drinking, when pursued by parents in the presence of, or to the knowledge of children, is a practice open to the gravest censure. In the mind of a child any action is deemed right if performed by a father or mother. As the children advance in years parental customs are followed, and, in such a case as this, probably the single gla.s.s of beer or wine of the father lays the foundation of intemperance in the children. Without undertaking to argue the question of the absolute necessity for a total abstinence from all liquors under all circ.u.mstances, the proposition may be seriously submitted that the effect of this personal example upon children is satisfactorily ascertained, from many different sources, to be prejudicial to their best interests, and a natural deduction therefore is that it is the duty of parents to abstain.
Instances are upon record where both fathers and mothers, in the temporary insanity of intoxication, have turned their daughters from home into the streets, and that, too, in cases where not even the remotest grounds existed for any suspicion of improper conduct on the part of these children. Occurrences like this are sufficient to enforce the necessity of temperance on the part of parents, in view of the fearful responsibility which rests upon them.
_Question._ WERE YOUR PARENTS PROTESTANTS, CATHOLICS, OR NON-PROFESSORS?
Religion. Numbers.
Protestants 960 Roman Catholics 977 Non-professors 63 ---- Total 2000
_Question._ WERE YOU TRAINED TO ANY RELIGION? IF SO, WAS IT PROTESTANT OR CATHOLIC?
Religion. Numbers.
Protestant 972 Roman Catholic 977 No religious training 51 ---- Total 2000
_Question._ DO YOU PROFESS THE SAME RELIGION NOW?
Profession. Numbers.
Profess religion as educated 1909 Non-professors 91 ---- Total 2000
_Question._ HOW LONG IS IT SINCE YOU HAVE OBSERVED ANY OF ITS REQUIREMENTS?
Time. Numbers.
1 year and under 861 From 1 ” to 2 years 310 ” 2 ” ” 3 ” 226 ” 3 ” ” 4 ” 135 ” 4 ” ” 5 ” 106 ” 5 ” ” 6 ” 72 ” 6 ” ” 7 ” 42 ” 7 ” ” 8 ” 42 ” 8 ” ” 9 ” 20 ” 9 ” ” 10 ” 36 ” 10 ” ” 12 ” 20 Unascertained 130 ---- Totals 2000
It certainly seems a very incongruous a.s.sociation to connect religion and prost.i.tution; to place in juxtaposition the most n.o.ble aspirations of which the mind is capable, and the lowest degradation to which, the body can descend. But such a contrast is not without its moral. It is not too great a stretch of imagination to suppose that of those unfortunate women who subsequently lost their position in society, some had the advantages of an early Christian education; were taught to believe in and reverence the Inspired Writings; were taught that there is a G.o.d who judgeth the world, and that there exists for all a future state. Reflecting upon this, and considering how deplorably such have fallen from the observance of precepts inculcated in the days of childhood, all persons will feel the necessity of watchfulness and care that the same fate does not befall themselves or their connections. The facts may teach another lesson. It may be presumed that some of these women were trained in the rigid and austere manner animadverted upon in the remarks on the causes of prost.i.tution, and that their present career is but the recoil from that unnatural restraint. Such conclusion would afford a solemn warning to all who have charge of the education of children to choose the happy mean between the extremes of careless laxity and excessive harshness. Either course is alike fatal to the welfare of their trust, and must end in disappointment and sorrow.
If it were consistent with propriety, it would not be possible to make any comparison between the results of Protestant and Roman Catholic teachings, because of the nearly equal number in each case. In the table exhibiting the religions professed by the parents there are seventeen more Roman Catholics than Protestants; in the table of the religions professed by the prost.i.tutes themselves there are five more Roman Catholics than Protestants. The relative value of the two creeds as rules of life can not therefore be made the subject of argument from such data. So far as our duties to the Almighty, to our fellow-men, and to ourselves--so far as the obligations to virtue and morality are concerned, the adherents of both parties are agreed, and in the investigation of the intricate social problem of female depravity it matters but little whether a majority of the pitiable subjects of the inquiry were educated in the tenets of the Church of Rome or in the doctrines of the Reformation. If the articles of faith of either Church are honestly observed by those who professedly believe in them, they will be effective in preventing immorality; but when this observance is confined to words, and not exemplified by actions, neither the simple rituals of Protestantism nor the more elaborate and artistically arranged ceremonials of Roman Catholicism can be of any avail. Neither, if our lives accord not with our profession, will it make an iota of difference in our future destiny whether we have bowed the knee in a temple devoted to Roman Catholic service before the image of a crucified Savior, and endeavored to train our thoughts to a contemplation of his mercy and beneficence, or have knelt in a Protestant Church, and there joined in the public confession that we are sinners.
The facts exhibited in the tables show that 1937 women had parents who were professedly members of one or the other of these communions; that 1949 women out of 2000 were taught to believe in the necessity of some religion, and that 1909 of these women still a.s.sert their confidence in the creed in which they were educated.
It can not be expected that, living in the constant practice of that which their consciences must teach them is sinful, these women would have continued to observe the outward form of religion. By comparing the table upon this point with the one framed from the replies to the question, ”For what length of time have you been a prost.i.tute?” it will be observed that 1674 admit they have been prost.i.tutes for six years and upward, and 1710 confess they have neglected to observe the requirements of religion for the same s.p.a.ce of time; a coincidence which leads us charitably to suppose that the crime and the omission are nearly parallel, so far as dates are concerned, and that hypocritical professions of religion do not rank among prost.i.tutes' offenses.
But even with their neglect of the outward requirements of faith, and while in the actual commission of known and acknowledged sin, they still preserve many traits which are much to their credit. They possess one of the chief virtues belonging to the female character, which never seems to become extinct or materially impaired; namely, kindness to each other when sick or dest.i.tute, and indeed to all who are in suffering or distress.
This has attracted the attention, and called forth the admiration, of every one who has been thrown into contact with them. A very touching instance of these amiable feelings occurred some years ago, and is narrated in the Westminster Review for July, 1850. A poor girl, who was rapidly sinking into a decline, after a short but impetuous course of infamy, had no means of support but from the continued exercise of her calling. With a mixture of kindness and conscientiousness which may well surprise us under the circ.u.mstances, her companions in degradation resolved among themselves that, as they said, ”at least she should not be compelled to die in sin,” and contributed from their own sad earnings a sufficient sum to enable her to pa.s.s her few remaining days in comfort and repentance.
This is far from being an exceptional case. An extended hospital experience has brought under our personal observation many acts of real sympathy and kindness toward each other among the prost.i.tute cla.s.s. If one of their number is discharged, and is unprovided with suitable clothing, they will club their scanty resources to supply her needs, frequently contributing articles they really want themselves. In any case of serious sickness, where prompt attention is required, they form most reliable nurses, and will cheerfully sacrifice their own rest at any time to minister to the sufferer, performing their duties with the utmost care and tenderness. Their fidelity to each other is strongly marked. It is literally impossible, in any case where a breach of discipline has occurred, to find a woman who will bear witness against any of her companions, and neither threats nor promises are sufficiently potent to extract the desired information.
These traits are not submitted with any intention of offering them as an equivalent to the morality which has been violated, but merely to prove that hearts which can conceive and execute such kindly purposes can not be entirely lost to the sense of virtue or the claims of benevolence. Truly they are but as an atom in the balance, but, like an oasis in the desert, they show that all is not arid and sterile.
CHAPTER x.x.xV.
NEW YORK.--PROSt.i.tUTES AND HOUSES OF PROSt.i.tUTION.
First Cla.s.s, or ”Parlor Houses.”--Luxury.--Semi-refinement.--Rate of Board.--Dress.--Money.--Lavish Extravagance.--Instance of Economy.-- Means of Amus.e.m.e.nt.--House-keepers.--Rents.--Estimated Receipts.-- Management of Houses.--a.s.sumed Respectability.--Consequences of Exactions from Prost.i.tutes.--Affection for Lovers.--Second Cla.s.s Houses.--Street-walkers.--Drunkenness.--Syphilitic Infection.--Third Cla.s.s Houses.--Germans.--Sailors.--Ball-rooms.--Intoxication.--Fourth Cla.s.s Houses.--Repulsive Features.--Visitors.--Action of the Police.-- First Cla.s.s Houses of a.s.signation.--Secrecy and Exclusiveness.-- Keepers.--Arrangements.--Visitors.--Origin of some Houses of a.s.signation.--Prevalence of Intrigue.--Foreign Manners.--Effects of Travel.--Dress.--Second Cla.s.s Houses.--Visitors.--Prost.i.tutes.-- Arrangements.--Wine and Liquor.--Third Cla.s.s Houses.--Kept Mistresses.--Sewing and Shop Girls.--Disease.--Fourth Cla.s.s Houses.-- ”Panel Houses.”
It will not be out of place here to say somewhat concerning the manner of life among prost.i.tutes; how they occupy the time, and what facilities they possess for mental or bodily recreation. The domestic life of a number of women whose every action is contrary to all the rules of virtue, who are living in the constant violation of the law, with a daily subsistence contributed by those whose folly or pa.s.sions make them visitors to their abode, can not but possess considerable interest to all who have followed thus far in this painful task. In entering upon the subject, the endeavor will be to give such particulars as will enable the reader to form satisfactory conclusions, without recording what would merely minister to a prurient curiosity. The object is to give information as explicitly as possible without offending the most sensitive delicacy, wounding the most refined feelings, or unnecessarily parading these poor women before the public eye. The subject is invested with such an array of real and palpable horrors as to render unnecessary any endeavor to excite undue emotion by penetrating the mysteries of the saturnalia.