Chapter 1336 (1/2)
Xie Yun has a strong unique charm of Jiangnan women. He has been a scholar, a university professor for many years, and has been in the market for many years. He has seen all kinds of big waves, so he has already become a powerful and all-round woman step by step.
Li Ma just spent more than an hour with Xie Yun in the kitchen, and she was very impressed with the woman who was only one year younger than herself.
Xie Yun is very beautiful. In her forties, she seems to be in her early thirties. Her appearance and temperament are much better than that of Li Ma. She has a smart mind and is very good at chatting. Even her cooking is very organized. When ordinary housewives cook, the kitchen looks like a war. When Xie Yun cooks, she is very orderly. There will be no mess, clean and tidy anywhere, and it is obvious It can be seen that she has a lot of research on cooking. She knows how to deal with the ingredients and how to control the temperature. There are many operation methods, which are not used in ordinary home dishes at all.
While watching Xie Yun cooking, Li Ma learns from her to help her. The two also chat about their family life. Xie Yun's every aspect is envied by Li Ma Xin.
During the chat, Li Ma knew Xie Yun's family background and the general life path. She had been studying until she was 30 years old. After graduating from her master's degree and getting a doctor's degree, she taught in a key university. Later, her husband resigned from the school to become his right arm, which made Li Ma not only envious, but also admired.
In front of Xie Yun, Li Ma's heart is humble. Of all the women of her age she has met, none of them has the educational background and knowledge and insight like Xie Yun, and there is no comparison on family details.
For Li Ma, both the Li family and her mother's Xiao family were just ordinary wage earners before Li Mu made his fortune. They didn't have enough inside information, so they didn't have enough inside information. Although Li Mu has made great progress and won't lose compared with any entrepreneur in China at present, Li Ma hasn't built up enough self-confidence in her mind.
In fact, for Xie Yun, she doesn't want to set up her perfect image in front of Li Ma. She has never even thought of surpassing Li Ma in temperament and other aspects. She just wants to show her advantages without losing her voice and color, and just want to give herself a little more support.
Like the lowliness in Xie Yun's heart when Li Ma faced Xie Yun, Xie Yun also had her own lowliness in her heart, because she knew that if talking about family business, no matter in the face of absolute strength, all other advantages could be ignored basically. In this year, if the word ”family business” is put aside from the political background, it's about how much assets it is to compare, and who is to say frankly More money.
When calculating family business, how many generations of literati, doctors, academicians, deep family background and cultural background do you have in your family? It's just the capital you brag about with ordinary people. It's really about family business. Everyone has more money than others. It doesn't make much sense for your family to be the number one scholar in the Qing Dynasty, a master in the Republic of China, or a academician after liberation. It can only be used as A secondary contrast scale, and only useful if the core scale is flat or even.
A family with assets of one billion yuan has the same strength as a family with assets of 950 million yuan. Only when the family culture with assets of 950 million yuan is stronger, can it slightly surpass each other in overall strength;
if the family with assets of 950 million yuan has to go to a family with assets of 9.5 billion yuan In terms of family strength and assets, it has already been grayed out in seconds. Then, who will take care of you when comparing the so-called family details? Even if the former family is full of postdoctors, it has no egg use. It will still be looked down upon by the latter, and then it can't look up in front of the latter, because we are not at the same level at all.
It's just like a college student with a monthly salary of 5000 yuan in Beipiao to compete with someone who has a car and a room in Yanjing but fails to graduate from high school. It's totally meaningless.
At this time, Xie Yun is facing the pressure of the huge gap between the two families in terms of capital. The gap between the two families in terms of assets is not only ten times and twenty times, but at least fifty times. In the future, the gap will become larger and larger. At this time, she will not find any foundation for herself, or even be unable to maintain normal communication with Li Ma.
But fortunately, mother Li is really a very friendly person, and she has not experienced the long-term training of the so-called big family. In her heart, she never thought that her son's wealth is an advantage of her own, so when they get along with Xie Yun, they both keep a tacit understanding of modesty, which is quite harmonious.
Li Ma praises Xie Yun for her good craftsmanship and exquisite work. Xie Yun praises her for her good character and good teaching skills. Li Ma praises Zhao Ziqiu for her beauty, which inherits Xie Yun's advantages. Xie Yun praises Li Mu for being tall and handsome, which inherits Li Ma's genes. So you come to me several times, and they have a great feeling for each other.
In the living room, Zhao Ziqiu also showed the temperament of a great lady in front of Li Pa. he could not find any fault in talking and image temperament.
Li PA drinks tea and occasionally secretly looks at Zhao Ziqiu and his son. The more he sees them, the more he thinks they are a match. If Li Mu can bring such a daughter-in-law home in the future, it's really impeccable.
Li PA is a traditional man with a strong sense of inheritance. He never opposes his son's early love. He even believes that it's human nature for a man to marry and have a son after the age of 18. In addition, the rural area attaches great importance to the prosperity of the population. In the early years, the family with more sons has a higher position in the village, even in case of natural and man-made disasters. Such a family is easier to live through When their sons grow up, they will spread their branches and leaves, and three generations will be able to form a big family. They are really envious of others.When it came time to eat, Li PA and Li Ma sat on the table and kept winking, especially Li Ma, who always took a chance to stare at Zhao Ziqiu, left and right, and how they liked it.
Li Mu didn't tell Li PA and Li Ma too much about Zhao Ziqiu. Li Ma was looking for opportunities to inquire about school, major, birthday, hobbies, boyfriends Basically, I've asked about everything I can, and I've asked about anything inappropriate.
Zhao Ziqiu was once asked very nervous, carefully and respectfully, while Xie Yun felt more and more relaxed. She could see that mother li really liked her daughter, which was an excellent signal.
Li Ma really likes Zhao Ziqiu. Although she doesn't know her relationship with her son, she is very happy to think that she is a friend of her son's and the two families live so close.