Chapter 262 (1/2)
Ye's meal, she clenched her lower lip.
Now, she is really melancholy.
Finally a sense of crisis?
Xia Ying hummed: ”of course, what I said is that if you continue in this state, you don't need to count on it. But if you change your strategy to the point where you respect him, it's absolutely OK
”Really?” Ye was excited in an instant.
Xia Ying picks her eyebrows. ”Why, are you interested in Song Jinyan?”
Ye's face was red and she nodded. ”My husband is very powerful, intelligent and capable. Which woman will not be attracted to him?”
”So your problem is in the heart!” Xia Ying is on his way.
Ye was stunned again.
Xia Ying sighed: ”younger sister-in-law, do you know, why did he marry you at first?”
”Because of my identity, as well as my quiet and clever, it seems that I am a virtuous wife who is good at manipulation.” Ye said, her voice choked up, ”in fact, I have been very hard in accordance with his goal close.”
”Come on! How long can you pretend that you are not of that temperament Xia Ying make complaints about her.
”What's more, what the Song family needs is not a virtuous wife. What he needs more is a person who can fight with him and help him in his career! And you, aren't you
”Am I?” Ye blinked.
Xia yingding nods. ”Of course you are. Didn't I list your strengths just now? Obviously, you can't use the existing advantages, but you have to beat yourself into a good wife and good mother. If you are not uncomfortable, he will feel uncomfortable! I don't care about you
But thinking of the day when he first entered the door, ye shook his head. ”My husband clearly doesn't like me like this.”
”But you held him down, didn't you?”
Ye was stunned again.
Xia Ying nodded. ”Yes. The way of getting along between husband and wife is also the relationship between people! In any case, either the east wind prevails over the west wind, or the west wind prevails over the east wind. If you keep giving in, you will only make people think you are bullying and don't take you seriously. ”
”But if you're strong, try it? Song Jinyan even if you look bad, but your ability is what he needs, he will still be close to you. As long as you have a chance to get close, it's easy for you to take some private goods with you. ”
”And
She had a pause. ”Don't forget, your aunt.”
Thinking of his aunt who is still in Ye's house, Ye's spirit is immediately shaken!
”Yes, I have to find a way to get my aunt out!”
”So you have to be more independent. Otherwise you think, even if you try your best to take over your aunt, others see you as a little daughter-in-law, they all look down on you, who will try their best to serve your aunt? ”
Ye began to think seriously.
Xia Ying also said: ”so if a woman wants to live in this world and let the people she cares about live a good life, it is very important to hold the right of speech in her hand. This is the foundation of your existence in this family. ”
”By the way, if song Jinyan really can't bear you to be separated from you, you can still rely on this ability to gain a foothold in the world. You are a dodder if you rely on a man wholeheartedly. Once a little wind and rain comes, you will be destroyed. ”
”Clearly, with your ability, you will not be so!”
Hearing all her words into her ears, Ye's eyes began to shine.