Chapter 3484 (1/2)

”I haven't had a good communication with my family for more than five years. Our mother and son's feelings are very weak. If I go up directly, I'll tell him that you must study hard. He will definitely have a rebellious psychology.

So I chose a relatively easy way to get close to him, that is, playing games with him.

Fortunately, although I entered this industry relatively late, my talent is good. I spent more than three months practicing my game skills, and then began to play games with Yangyang.

Because I play well, Yangyang subconsciously regards me as a partner, and then I teach him operation as a reward to let him study hard.

As Yangyang said just now, he often doesn't listen well and sleep in class, so his foundation is very poor.

When I tell him, he often doesn't understand what I'm talking about, such as physics. When I say it, he understands it. However, no matter how many times I say it, he can't understand it well. I also have an idea to connect knowledge with games and let Yangyang accept those abstract concepts. Fortunately, this method is feasible.

Finally, I do not mean to encourage you to play games with your children like me, but to say that you want your children to study hard and improve their academic performance. Yes, there is no problem at all, but you must know how to teach students according to their aptitude.

It's right to let children learn, but you can't just let children know how to learn.

The ancients paid attention to relaxation. There is no reason. We don't even understand the ancients.

Most of our children are 15 or 16 years old. It is the time when the rebellious psychology is strongest. Do you realize that the more you don't let the children do, the more they want to do?

It's like, against your request, they will be happy.

In fact, they will be happy. I don't believe you ask Yangyang if he is happy playing games behind my back. ”

The parents immediately looked at Chen Yang.

Chen Yang quickly waved his hand, ”no, I didn't play games behind my mother's back. I played with her.”

In Jiujiu's eyes, Chen Yang whispered, ”but what my mother doesn't let me do, I really want to do something.”

Looking at Chen Yang's explanation, Jiujiu couldn't help laughing, ”so I hope you don't blindly accuse children of not knowing how to study well.

Children have their own things to do. I hope you can deeply understand the child's heart and behavior. Finally, give them the greatest tolerance and let them know that, in fact, we do this because we love him. ”

Jiujiu paused and added another sentence.

”I know that some parents like to superimpose their hard work and hard life on their children. Every time, they say, if it weren't for you, what would I do? I hope parents who do this will stop your behavior immediately. If you do this, it won't do any good to their children. On the contrary, it will make their children feel that they are a burden and that they are procrastinating Tired psychology.

I hope you recognize one thing. Even without your children, your life will be very tired and your life will be very hard.

Because, life is like this, constant hard work and sleepiness accumulated together, will give you so little sweetness.

These are all for your own sake. Don't add all these to the child. The child's life begins. His life should be sweet like chocolate, not bitter and difficult to swallow because of you. ”

Jiujiu, ”how long do I have to say? Thank you.”

After Jiujiu finished, he came together with Chen Yang to talk.

Seeing Jiujiu coming over, Chen Yang's cheeks unconsciously reddened. He looked at Jiujiu with drooping eyes and said to Jiujiu, ”Mom, it's very kind of you.”

Although he thought Jiujiu people were very good before, today, he really deeply felt how good Jiujiu is.

Jiujiu rubbed Chen Yang's small head, smiled and said, ”I've set you up, and you still say I'm good?”

Chen Yang shook his head. ”It's different.”